Past
I have three younger sisters and when we were little my parents, especially my Dad, always tried to teach us the importance of helping others. One tradition we had as kids was to visit the nursing home by our house in Calgary on Christmas Eve and sing carols to all of the seniors who couldn't be with their families. My sisters and I would bring our little keyboard and sing our hearts out while my Dad stood in the back of the room directing us and yelling "Harmony Girls, Harmony". (Picture a big Italian) The one year as we hugged some everyone goodbye, we were handed loonies from the seniors own change purses. We got outside and asked our Dad if he was proud of us and he said "NO, you came here to Give, not to Receive!" Instantly we went back inside and returned the money, saying it was our gift to them to sing. I think all of them knew that our Dad was trying to teach us an important lesson. When we left for the second time my Dad said "Now I am proud of my girls." My sisters and I knew the lesson my Dad was trying to teach us instantly. It IS better to give than to receive.
All of us took that lesson into our lives as we got older and we even tried to re-vive the Christmas Eve carols at the nursing home on our own as teenagers. (Let's just say that little kids singing out of tune is cute...teenagers singing out of tune not so cute).
Present
Currently I try to live that lesson in my life both professionaly and personally. Personally, I really strive to help outside of the realm of the LFB by being involved in Rotary and living by my Dad's favorite saying that "No matter how bad you think you have it, someone else has it much worse and your job is to make it better." Professionally my job allows me to see the gifts of the people who can give and the appreciation from the people who receive.
Future
I hope that the LFB will be able to continue the work we do with the same dedication, appreciation and assistance. It truly is better to give than to receive!